Christmas is coming ...

"Christmas is coming and the geese are getting fat. Let's all put a penny in the poor man's hat."

This little rhyme, penned so many generations ago, indicates very simply the two main ways in which Christmas should be celebrated: making merry and making sacrifices! Rejoicing that Christ has come: yet taking seriously the stark message of the manger.

Getting the balance in anything is difficult. And Christmas is certainly no exception. Most people today would, I think, agree that materialism and commercialism have largely taken over the Christmas season. Self-indulgence is big: self-denial is small. Parties and presents predominate. Excess is far more common in the consumption of food and drink than in the spirit of giving and self-sacrifice. And this, despite the fact that what we are celebrating is the birthday of a Saviour who sacrificed his entire life and whose call to us is to do likewise.

Can we redress what has become one-sided and distorted? Well, the secret of improving any life situation is to embrace what's good in it and ignore what's bad! In this way, the good will prosper and the bad will wither away. We should be wary of targeting directly the negative elements, even in the hope of correcting them; the attention only empowers them and enables them to grow and consolidate.

So this Christmas, instead of preaching cut-backs on self-indulgence, let's encourage and fan into flame the good elements that are present. Let's GIVE! care or money to those who need them. And to ourselves, time to reflect on the deeper hungers of the human spirit, so that we may find ways to nurture them.