Lenten Meditation 2005

Week 3 - Understanding


The outstanding story of the third week is that of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. Her life was not easy but she found encouragement and acceptance in the company of Jesus (Jn 4:5-42). How much understanding and acceptance do we offer when we meet people who live by a different code than ourselves?

As we grow in understanding of ourselves, we come face to face with a God who clearly states “I am who I am” (Ex 3:1-8;13-15) Implicit in this is God’s longing for us to be. However, being true to ourselves can be unpopular, as Jesus discovered when he declared who he was in his home town (Lk 4:24-30). How easy it is to diminish others in our suspicion and wariness of them. How often we compromise when feeling threatened by others criticsim and rejection.

The week ends with the heartfelt plea of Hosea to come back to God, not only at difficult times but constantly and with fidelity (Hos 14:2-10) In the humility of the tax collector’s prayer there is consolation for us in our struggle for understanding of ourselves and others. How often pride in our accomplishment, our possessions and how we like to present ourselves to the world can lead us away from any real sense of who we are and what we truly need so that we might live out of the fullness of our being.

  • Do I treat others as I wish to be treated?
  • Is my criticism undermining someone or something?
  • Am I afraid of losing face?
  • Do I trust freely?
  • Do I live by the rules rather than compassion?
  • Am I impressed by appearances?
  • Am I faithful to my promises?